7 Comments
Jun 20, 2022Liked by Lorraine Candy

My daughter finishes her GCSEs this week and for me it’s setting boundaries and the balance of some more freedom with friends. With a festival looming it would be great to have some practical advice about how to keep safe, your phone safe, what to carry belongings in, etc -perhaps from some of you who are experienced in this matter. And how to discuss this without sounding like a nag all Summer.

Expand full comment
Jun 20, 2022Liked by Lorraine Candy

Exams finished end of May for us in Scotland . Always find they crash and burn a bit after so I am very lenient, letting them sleep, eat whatever and don’t nag them to do anything ( despite me being desperate to blitz their bedrooms with several binbags ). School is v good as just lots of activities especially for 6th year, DofE trips and no real lessons or homework ( some schools start the next academic year straightaway which is tough) . Then the party season kicks in and I just go with it really as it’s only for a 3 weeks ( term ends on 22nd June !)! and I feel they deserve it especially after the last two years . Over the holidays it’s just trying to find a balance between activities and doing nothing and maybe throwing a few gentle suggestions in or conversely being realistic with times, distances , finances and over full diaries depending on the child 😅. We still have boundaries with phones in bedrooms and bedtimes during weekdays and I probably ask a wee bit more help with chores ( with a teen driver this is surprisingly useful!) .

Expand full comment

We finish tomorrow. I’ve a Mummy/Daughter lunch and trip to The British Museum (her happy place) planned, and a few fun dates over the next week or so. Beyond that, I’m really worried about Imogen slipping into a fug, she has some summer holidays planned, but too much unstructured downtime, which is highly likely to mean mindless scrolling and social media induced anxiety. I’m trying hard not to try and control her downtime, but she’s an only child and we work full time. It’s a worry for sure!

Expand full comment

Thursday is the day for us!

Concerned about keeping boundaries and some restrictions in place as the rest of the household have work and school and won’t be in the party place I suspect my son will want to be in! He may well surprise be and be sensible. 😬

Expand full comment